Do you champion individuality? Do you routinely encourage unique individuals to express themselves? Do you listen to your authentic individuality or your fears? It’s fun and freeing to boldly flaunt your wild, uninhibited individuality.
As a coach, I listen to client fears and prescribe tools and strategies to move forward in spite of them. This process is a big part of foundational life coaching before clients are confidently ready to apply business coaching.
Listening to the core fears of hundreds of courageous people has honored me. These individuals are courageous because they are willing to fully express their fears.
The similarity of their fears is very telling.
You may believe that your fears are unique to you but they aren’t.
You either have fears of success or of failure. You may have fears of not being capable in one area or another. Or you have fears of not having enough time or enough money. That’s it.
A vast majority of the fears fall into one of those five categories.
Individuals are brilliantly unique but their fears are strikingly common.
The marketplace rewards authentic differentiation and devalues what’s common.
Conformity is common. The fearful conform. Conformity is common obedience. Conformity dilutes individual power and dulls authentic brilliance.
What do you think stops you from living fearlessly as the unique individual that you are? Overtime fears become solidified as powerful limiting beliefs.
You only believe in your fears because you’ve lived with them for so long. Your fears have crafted the frightening story that you keep retelling.
Yet your fearful story is just who you thought you were. There’s nothing authentic about that story – it’s just an illusion created by years of over-thinking. It’s not who you really are. But you do have a choice.
The longer it takes for you to choose bold authentic expression – the longer it will take you to get what you want.
Taking a stand for your own unique individuality is a courageous and necessary component of evolution.
Buried beneath all of you fears may be an even deeper fear of your own brilliant individuality.
They have come to understand that – no punishment anyone might inflict on them could possibly be worse than the punishment they inflict upon themselves, by conspiring in their own diminishment. Parker Palmer
I rally round the freedom flag of self-employment because working as an employee automatically makes you smaller.
Working as an employee is a consciously chosen path of personal diminishment.
What if your greatness can only be unleashed through the boldness of self-employment?
What if your fulfillment can only come by being your own man or woman, in every way?
What if the one true key to lasting business success is authentic expression?
If you are good at being you, products resulting from your ideas and character will have excellence built into them. Egbert Sukop
Others suffer by paying for inferior products and services when you settle for a job just to pay the bills. But when you are unfaithful to your true self – you suffer the most.
If you are here unfaithfully with us – you are causing terrible damage. Rumi
It’s time to quit telling lies about your own capabilities.
It’s time to quit repeating your fears. Instead it’s time to embrace your wonderfully quirky individuality.
I’m looking for those who are ready right now to shed their cowardly skins and stand tall in their authentic brilliance.
You must make the decision to go for it, in your own way or your authentic brilliance will starve from a lack of self-respect.
I seek to work with the bold.
I seek to inspire and to encourage the bold.
Is it you? It’s my honor to coach you to your greatness. Can you imagine laughing in the face of your fears? Using the right tools you can free yourself.
There is a radiating enthusiasm building within you right now.
Free it. Ask these questions of yourself.
“What magnificence is seeking to awaken within me?”
“What bolder, freer life is calling me forth?”
“How could I engage my individuality to astonish myself?”